Comments on: Rude and not ginger http://heartdrops.org/rude-and-not-ginger/ The Raining Love Organisation Thu, 09 Feb 2012 15:52:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Elena http://heartdrops.org/rude-and-not-ginger/#comment-14659 Elena Sat, 31 Jul 2010 03:54:51 +0000 http://heartdrops.org/?p=33979#comment-14659 I completely understand where you are coming from! It doesn't happen to me often, but when it does, I simply tell the person as nicely as I can that I'm just uncomfortable with them asking me that. Most of them respect that and let it be. I know I can ask personal things quite often...because of my... curiosity (or nosy-ness ;) ). However, I'll do the best I can not to pressure you and of course, I won't make you answer. You can just tell me you're uncomfortable...you know? Heh. Of course you do. You wrote this post. >.> Sorry. :P I don't hate family-friends though. I love most of them. None of mine are like that...we're pretty close with them though. ^_^ Of course they aren't rude JUST BECAUSE they're family-friends. It's simply that person's personality, but I think you know that...whatever, sorry for my babbling. >.> >.< I completely understand where you are coming from!
It doesn’t happen to me often, but when it does, I simply tell the person as nicely as I can that I’m just uncomfortable with them asking me that. Most of them respect that and let it be.
I know I can ask personal things quite often…because of my… curiosity (or nosy-ness ;) ). However, I’ll do the best I can not to pressure you and of course, I won’t make you answer. You can just tell me you’re uncomfortable…you know? Heh. Of course you do. You wrote this post. >.>
Sorry. :P

I don’t hate family-friends though. I love most of them. None of mine are like that…we’re pretty close with them though. ^_^
Of course they aren’t rude JUST BECAUSE they’re family-friends. It’s simply that person’s personality, but I think you know that…whatever, sorry for my babbling. >.>
>.<

]]> By: Daniel http://heartdrops.org/rude-and-not-ginger/#comment-14656 Daniel Sat, 31 Jul 2010 01:21:54 +0000 http://heartdrops.org/?p=33979#comment-14656 No wonder I'm told to be conscious of the questions I ask... and not to ask so many of them. It's because I don't know what kinds of questions are personal, and what aren't. I suppose I'm guilty of something like this, so for that I'm... OK I don't even know if it's something to say sorry for either. Oh God this is so confusing. No wonder I’m told to be conscious of the questions I ask… and not to ask so many of them.

It’s because I don’t know what kinds of questions are personal, and what aren’t.

I suppose I’m guilty of something like this, so for that I’m… OK I don’t even know if it’s something to say sorry for either. Oh God this is so confusing.

]]> By: Catherine http://heartdrops.org/rude-and-not-ginger/#comment-14655 Catherine Sat, 31 Jul 2010 00:46:33 +0000 http://heartdrops.org/?p=33979#comment-14655 Wow those people sounds really rude and annoying. Much like you I never know how to react to really personal questions being ask, I usually just say something like 'why does it matter?' or 'I don't know'. :/ Mer I can't think of any personal questions right now, but there have been a few >< Wow those people sounds really rude and annoying.

Much like you I never know how to react to really personal questions being ask, I usually just say something like ‘why does it matter?’ or ‘I don’t know’. :/

Mer I can’t think of any personal questions right now, but there have been a few ><

]]> By: Christa http://heartdrops.org/rude-and-not-ginger/#comment-14654 Christa Fri, 30 Jul 2010 19:48:18 +0000 http://heartdrops.org/?p=33979#comment-14654 That lady is so rude! Sad thing is, I think we pretty much know all of the people in this area like this. Ugh. And you're totally right, if you're going to ask a personal question to someone be ready to answer it as well. No one has really asked me any personal questions in a LONG time. I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing. lol. That lady is so rude! Sad thing is, I think we pretty much know all of the people in this area like this. Ugh. And you’re totally right, if you’re going to ask a personal question to someone be ready to answer it as well.

No one has really asked me any personal questions in a LONG time. I don’t know if that’s a good thing or a bad thing. lol.

]]> By: Amber http://heartdrops.org/rude-and-not-ginger/#comment-14653 Amber Fri, 30 Jul 2010 18:54:21 +0000 http://heartdrops.org/?p=33979#comment-14653 Yeah, I wasn't forced into joining, but he would be upset if I quit. Especially because I'm in regular band too. I'm just going to have to make the best of it though. There isn't anything I can do. Well, I understand everything though. Like, the tilt of the Earth and things, but it's weird to think about. Like, when it's Christmas over there, it's summer. :O And, I've had boyfriends but nothing serious or anything. Yeah, I wasn’t forced into joining, but he would be upset if I quit. Especially because I’m in regular band too. I’m just going to have to make the best of it though. There isn’t anything I can do.

Well, I understand everything though. Like, the tilt of the Earth and things, but it’s weird to think about. Like, when it’s Christmas over there, it’s summer. :O

And, I’ve had boyfriends but nothing serious or anything.

]]> By: bianca http://heartdrops.org/rude-and-not-ginger/#comment-14652 bianca Fri, 30 Jul 2010 15:49:46 +0000 http://heartdrops.org/?p=33979#comment-14652 ye i dislike it as well but im an open person as well but dont ask personal questions on the first meet. i got asked how do i go to the bathroom and whether i use anything /ehe ye i dislike it as well but im an open person as well but dont ask personal questions on the first meet. i got asked how do i go to the bathroom and whether i use anything /ehe

]]> By: Lucien http://heartdrops.org/rude-and-not-ginger/#comment-14651 Lucien Fri, 30 Jul 2010 14:57:29 +0000 http://heartdrops.org/?p=33979#comment-14651 About 2 years ago, a 2nd-instance cousin, a 2-3-months-older nosey, superficial and meddling b***h with something amiss in her brain (she just doesn't get things), asked me why I wasn't looking for a fiancé - she used exactly the french term - since I was 28 and many of my other cousins were already married by that age.....WTH?!?!??!? /ehh I just shut up and glared at her, and I think she got the message; who's her to sprout sentences on how I live my life? Then, I could ask her why she married a man-child who needed more a mother than a wife, so that she can have her own little servant and run the house like a tyrant (whom she is)! /pow Another time, last year, she come to visit gran'ma (I wasn't there that day, but mom and my aunt told me everything) and, when she saw our tiny pool, she said "Maybe some day, after work, I'll come over and bathe" like that was her own house.............WTFlyingF?!?!?!?!?!?!? /bomb My mom and aunt didn't answered and we hope she got the message. This girl is really annoying; she wants to befriend my first cousin (my aunt's daughter) and so she's always asking to me and her to have dinner with her. ....Hello?!? We, especially my cousing Maddy, do not like her; we have our own friends and don't feel like counting her as one, because our personnalities are very different, not matching at all; it's been that way for the last 20 years, so she better get a grip on the situation and stop bothering us, before we are forced to treat her badly...and, sadly, she is always a relative. :( About 2 years ago, a 2nd-instance cousin, a 2-3-months-older nosey, superficial and meddling b***h with something amiss in her brain (she just doesn’t get things), asked me why I wasn’t looking for a fiancé – she used exactly the french term – since I was 28 and many of my other cousins were already married by that age…..WTH?!?!??!? /ehh
I just shut up and glared at her, and I think she got the message; who’s her to sprout sentences on how I live my life?
Then, I could ask her why she married a man-child who needed more a mother than a wife, so that she can have her own little servant and run the house like a tyrant (whom she is)! /pow

Another time, last year, she come to visit gran’ma (I wasn’t there that day, but mom and my aunt told me everything) and, when she saw our tiny pool, she said “Maybe some day, after work, I’ll come over and bathe” like that was her own house………….WTFlyingF?!?!?!?!?!?!? /bomb
My mom and aunt didn’t answered and we hope she got the message.

This girl is really annoying; she wants to befriend my first cousin (my aunt’s daughter) and so she’s always asking to me and her to have dinner with her.
….Hello?!? We, especially my cousing Maddy, do not like her; we have our own friends and don’t feel like counting her as one, because our personnalities are very different, not matching at all; it’s been that way for the last 20 years, so she better get a grip on the situation and stop bothering us, before we are forced to treat her badly…and, sadly, she is always a relative. :(

]]> By: Clarisse http://heartdrops.org/rude-and-not-ginger/#comment-14649 Clarisse Fri, 30 Jul 2010 14:51:42 +0000 http://heartdrops.org/?p=33979#comment-14649 Ah, I hate those kinds of people. She seems so rude. You shouldn't ask other people about their money. That's a private thing. If she asks a question, she should at least have the decency to answer it as well. I was asked about a lot of private things when people found out about my boyfriend; I guess it was just standard operating procedure for them. "Do your parents know?" "Do they approve of him?" "Does your brother approve of him?" "Did you guys kiss yet?" "Did you guys make out yet? You're not answering, so you did!" "Have you ever fought?" "How did he ask you to be your girlfriend? Where?" It's just so annoying because the people asking me those things are the ones that barely know me. My friends respect my privacy. Ah, I hate those kinds of people. She seems so rude.

You shouldn’t ask other people about their money. That’s a private thing.

If she asks a question, she should at least have the decency to answer it as well.

I was asked about a lot of private things when people found out about my boyfriend; I guess it was just standard operating procedure for them.

“Do your parents know?”
“Do they approve of him?”
“Does your brother approve of him?”
“Did you guys kiss yet?”
“Did you guys make out yet? You’re not answering, so you did!”
“Have you ever fought?”
“How did he ask you to be your girlfriend? Where?”

It’s just so annoying because the people asking me those things are the ones that barely know me. My friends respect my privacy.

]]> By: Jamie http://heartdrops.org/rude-and-not-ginger/#comment-14648 Jamie Fri, 30 Jul 2010 14:04:40 +0000 http://heartdrops.org/?p=33979#comment-14648 Thank you so much for the nice compliments on my pictures! Heehee yeah the make up is a bit light on my skin tone. It's called Ten make up. It's a sorta shimmery kind of make up. I used my eyeliner pencil, and mascara and some foundation and powder. I think that's why my picture was so bright in the one shot. :/ Yeah it's never to late to start watching a television series. My dad said I could borrow it any time I want too, but I'll probably be watching "My Name Is Earl" when we're all moved and stuff. Right now I'm watching "LOST". Hehe I just love that show. I was going over the ending with my dad last night like why did it end the way it did and such. I was still lost on it. lol. Yeah I will definitely get "Belle" it'll take me a while to save $3,000.00 worth but in the end it'll be worth the wait ya know? My dad's gf told me to get a 10 month year old puppy, so that way they'll be half way potty trained and get a female (which I was planning on doing any way), because their wee wee's won't be like corn on your skin lmao..I was thinking eww when she first said that but laughed at it later. But yeah I'm definitely going to take a lot of pictures of "Belle" and show them. Heehee. Oh I know that people can be cruel. For instance, my other so called best friend, and I just got back together after being absent from a long time (she moving to the east coast, getting married and having kids and what not) and than finding each other on myspace. I asked if she'd like to go Disneyland. She said she would, but she didn't have the money with her...than months pass, and her cousin asked if she'd like to go to Disneyland with her and she said yes and they went to Disneyland and I was fuming when I saw the pictures of her and her boys at Disneyland. I was like thanks a lot for inviting me. She's like my cousin paid for it all and everything which I highly doubt. Anyway, I called the doctor's yesterday and they got me booked to see them this Tuesday at 2:30 or 2:40 p.m.. I was hoping they wouldn't be mad at me for accidentally forgetting my appointment, which is the truth I did forget my appointment and totally thought wednesday was Thursday lmfao. Oh well. Thank you so much for the nice compliments on my pictures! Heehee yeah the make up is a bit light on my skin tone. It’s called Ten make up. It’s a sorta shimmery kind of make up. I used my eyeliner pencil, and mascara and some foundation and powder. I think that’s why my picture was so bright in the one shot. :/

Yeah it’s never to late to start watching a television series. My dad said I could borrow it any time I want too, but I’ll probably be watching “My Name Is Earl” when we’re all moved and stuff. Right now I’m watching “LOST”. Hehe I just love that show. I was going over the ending with my dad last night like why did it end the way it did and such. I was still lost on it. lol.

Yeah I will definitely get “Belle” it’ll take me a while to save $3,000.00 worth but in the end it’ll be worth the wait ya know? My dad’s gf told me to get a 10 month year old puppy, so that way they’ll be half way potty trained and get a female (which I was planning on doing any way), because their wee wee’s won’t be like corn on your skin lmao..I was thinking eww when she first said that but laughed at it later. But yeah I’m definitely going to take a lot of pictures of “Belle” and show them. Heehee.

Oh I know that people can be cruel. For instance, my other so called best friend, and I just got back together after being absent from a long time (she moving to the east coast, getting married and having kids and what not) and than finding each other on myspace. I asked if she’d like to go Disneyland. She said she would, but she didn’t have the money with her…than months pass, and her cousin asked if she’d like to go to Disneyland with her and she said yes and they went to Disneyland and I was fuming when I saw the pictures of her and her boys at Disneyland. I was like thanks a lot for inviting me. She’s like my cousin paid for it all and everything which I highly doubt.

Anyway, I called the doctor’s yesterday and they got me booked to see them this Tuesday at 2:30 or 2:40 p.m.. I was hoping they wouldn’t be mad at me for accidentally forgetting my appointment, which is the truth I did forget my appointment and totally thought wednesday was Thursday lmfao. Oh well.

]]> By: Sophia http://heartdrops.org/rude-and-not-ginger/#comment-14647 Sophia Fri, 30 Jul 2010 13:48:33 +0000 http://heartdrops.org/?p=33979#comment-14647 Sometimes I don't mind answering personal questions, but not the ones you mentioned above. However, I do mind if they're. And what bugs me is that we can't say anything because they're "family friends". Not that I would say anything to them, I'm not that kind of person but the "family friends" part. Just because they're doesn't mean they're allowed to be that rude, hell, even my own FAMILY won't ask questions or favors for that matter, like these. My family had their own share of annoying family friends, like you said, they're between family and friends. We had many family friend when I was a child, still we do, but they moved away yet we still contact each other. But we're really close with 2 families, one is extremely annoying yet so kind hearted. They ask favors like how she asked your mother to to take her kid from school. We really can't say anything but sit there and do what they demand. “You’re a really, really nosey woman, you know that!<< LOL love that part, exactly what she deserved. They just need firm people like that to reply to them, I'm not one, I'm just afraid to hurt people's feelings. I guess that famous "Are you virgin" question /snort . ------------ Thank you, I'm glad things turned out the way they are now :) Yup, we should put it behind us, and become stronger. I have been taking lost of risks lately, and the outcome of it is really great. like i mentioned before I gained more friends, became somewhat social. I'm sorry for that. But I'm glad you're having a great time now, in uni. Haha, LOL. When our parents leave the house we just get too excited. The house will be in an instant mess, but before 2minutes from their arrival everything gets cleaned etc. Haha, good times. I've had many friends like that. I don't get why people like to "pretend", if you know what I mean. But that's the past now, I had a horrible one LOL. We shouldn't worry too much about the future or past, just live in the present. Aw, I hope sometime you will! Sometimes I don’t mind answering personal questions, but not the ones you mentioned above. However, I do mind if they’re. And what bugs me is that we can’t say anything because they’re “family friends”. Not that I would say anything to them, I’m not that kind of person but the “family friends” part. Just because they’re doesn’t mean they’re allowed to be that rude, hell, even my own FAMILY won’t ask questions or favors for that matter, like these.

My family had their own share of annoying family friends, like you said, they’re between family and friends. We had many family friend when I was a child, still we do, but they moved away yet we still contact each other. But we’re really close with 2 families, one is extremely annoying yet so kind hearted. They ask favors like how she asked your mother to to take her kid from school. We really can’t say anything but sit there and do what they demand.

“You’re a really, really nosey woman, you know that!<< LOL love that part, exactly what she deserved. They just need firm people like that to reply to them, I'm not one, I'm just afraid to hurt people's feelings.

I guess that famous "Are you virgin" question /snort .

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Thank you, I'm glad things turned out the way they are now :)

Yup, we should put it behind us, and become stronger. I have been taking lost of risks lately, and the outcome of it is really great. like i mentioned before I gained more friends, became somewhat social. I'm sorry for that. But I'm glad you're having a great time now, in uni.

Haha, LOL. When our parents leave the house we just get too excited. The house will be in an instant mess, but before 2minutes from their arrival everything gets cleaned etc. Haha, good times.

I've had many friends like that. I don't get why people like to "pretend", if you know what I mean. But that's the past now, I had a horrible one LOL. We shouldn't worry too much about the future or past, just live in the present.

Aw, I hope sometime you will!

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